Silence: A weakness or strength

 Whenever i think of this word the first thing come to my is school or tuition.

Apart from jokes 

Yes, it mostly reminds me the time of my school where we heard this most to keep silence when we were small.

We will not be discussiomng about that silence surely, but one way or the other it relates the topic i.e. silence.

We've learned that to be silent we must not talk, we must not make noise 

In here we will be knowing that where it is a threat for us and where this can be used as an opportunity or strength.

In this time people judge other poeple before judging themselves 

Their classification is based on the old books pertaining The extroverts and introverts. These are the only ones who exist and no other complexity.

The judging carries with how a person is able to speak aggresively and wins other's hearts by buttering them, others just enjoy.

He's able to fight and talks against the other , backbitching whole lot of lost to classify a human according to them.

This philosophy of their is so much exclusive, it will not be available anywhere else and just in their minds.

We should know about the existence of the above fact because some people are here they not been matured or are going to be or some have not even experienced this world.

So we shall be prepared.

Now as we came to know there are different types of people around us, and numerous conversations occur. 

So can we control all these things happening around us 

Well .... NO 

There could be certain things that we can control but there are some variables

We cannot control 

Something happens naturally 

But we are going to know what exactly we can do.....

Also we hear rumours 

And some people think that either a verbal communication affects greatly or a non verbal one 

Both are different and both have its cons and pros 

But i have seen that the combination of the two affects much harder than anything else 

Using non-verbal and verbal, the formation of the sphere is very different.

Non verbal seems to be weigh little but it is more...

Well a suggestion i like to give in here will be that we shall be humble everytime for everything is going.

We shall give other peoples perspective a priority if they wanted to take it and this shows our values and humbleness.

If we start everytime from ourselves without listening to others it might create a problem.

We shall let them speak.

In an aggressive conversation, or a frictional situation we shall listen to others first and then speak, this allows us to give us more time to think also and so we can understand others perspective also.

*Make an aim first as if we want to take this conversation to solve or to first - even if other person is opposite of this thinking don't worry try it once.

*always try to respond firmly and in a low tone- low tone doesn't mean to make your voice tone and volume so low because here someone is saying 

No but in a way you look calm.

This will help to lessen the heat of your conversation 

Try to understand others prescription and then give yours.

You'll then come to a conclusion.

But in our time we see that the opposite party's will is to degrade our morals and values. In this situation you'll see that the other peoson use a chance and take it as an opportunity for himself to fight and have a bad conversation.

Everytime he/she dies the same thing.

And now you see that he/she is genuinely doing this for fun.

If this the fact then you have a right to take a great powerful step.

But my advice to each one here is that just only use this for your protection and not for fun or even for your satisfaction.

You'll be only hearing that person and not listen 

You will not show the acceptance of what the other person is claiming 

You will not speak and you'll not nod.

Your response would be like innocuous towards their talk. But you will not tell them.

This way the talk will remain to that person only who was arguing, since you not accepted the words. This is the strength

And silence can be a weakness also 

For example the matter or the talk you must be there, you should have your presence and you are just attending and not speaking.

It can creat to other people minds that you are shy or an introvert in their words.

But here also you have to believe yourself that according to you where you are presence is needful and you are fulfiiling the same.

Good bye ..